• Awoo [she/her]@hexbear.net
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          3 years ago

          Does my username make me look like a dude to you? Why are liberals so fucking awful? It’s only ever you. Nobody in the left does this.

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            Your lack of social understanding is showing through. Maybe if you lived in any of the countries you disparage all day long (or just did something useful and constructive with your life besides troll farming), you might understand that “dude” is gender neutral these days. But sure, I’m sorry if my usage of “dude” really exacted a heavy load of social injustice upon you.

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              “Dude” can be gender neutral but given the context of it in your response it really fucking looks like a microaggression against her for being trans

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              3 years ago

              My lack of social understanding? Gender neutral?

              I have to smash through the wall like Hbomberguy right now

              “DO YOU FUCK DUDES? AnomalousBit?”

              Do you go around telling other people that you fuck dudes? What do other people assume you mean when you say that you fuck dudes?

              You could have just been like “Yeah you’re right, sorry I didn’t mean to misgender you.” but instead you doubled down on being a transphobic dickhead and literally proved my point about liberals being shitbags in the process.

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                “DO YOU FUCK DUDES? AnomalousBit?”

                Do you go around telling other people that you fuck dudes?

                Would it be a problem if he went around and said he fucked dudes?

                I’m confused, are you using gays as an insult here? That’s messed up if so, so I hope that’s not what you meant.

                I do agree on your comment about the usage of wrong pronouns though, you shouldn’t have had that happen.

                • BurgerPunk [he/him, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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                  No, it wouldn’t be a problem if he said he fucked dudes. The implication though is that “dudes” is a gendered term. The complaint is that she was misgendered by someone who then doubled down on the misgendering. Her statement was not homophobic.

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                    3 years ago

                    No, it wouldn’t be a problem if he said he fucked dudes.

                    I know it wouldn’t be, but making the argument that “you don’t want to accidentally sound like you’re gay” is not the counter argument you might think it is, which is why I was asking her about her intent with that.

    • 420blazeit69 [he/him]@hexbear.net
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      3 years ago

      Look, you started hot in this thread but tired after a few comments. They adjusted, you didn’t, and you got rocked; it happens. Hit the showers and we’ll get after it early tomorrow with some film.