probably to soften the blow or say like “unfortunately for you”
charlotte/aleks
im proud of who i am 🏳️🌈
monolingual loser, hope to learn more languages 💔
she/her/he/him - lesbian genderfluid
i love my gf ❤️
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charlotte/aleks@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
New Communities@lemmy.world•New community I made out of boredom!!English
4·3 months agowe also have !kindnesskommunityalt@lemmy.blahaj.zone for a community about being kind
it was bc my current gf hated that i was a trans man
im obv in pain and he yells at me for it
i detransitioned. tysm
charlotte/aleks@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
New Communities@lemmy.world•a community about and in my toki pona-based conlang ^ _ ^English
2·9 months agoi think it’s around the same 🤔 hehe
charlotte/aleks@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
New Communities@lemmy.world•a community about and in my toki pona-based conlang ^ _ ^English
6·9 months agowhoops. i made my own language based off a language called toki pona. i made a community focusing on said made up language.
charlotte/aleks@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
New Communities@lemmy.world•a community about and in my toki pona-based conlang ^ _ ^English
4·9 months agothanks!
charlotte/aleks@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•my (18f) sister (13f) is convinced i don’t care about her, how do i convince her i do?English
5·10 months agoautism and my dissociation causes me to be unable to talk when im too stimulated
charlotte/aleks@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•my (18f) sister (13f) is convinced i don’t care about her, how do i convince her i do?English
2·10 months agothank you so much :)
charlotte/aleks@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•my (18f) sister (13f) is convinced i don’t care about her, how do i convince her i do?English
6·10 months agoi will, thank you so much. i told her she could watch tv with me. would it be rude to tell her to stop playing screaming videos because i don’t like those videos ?
charlotte/aleks@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•would dating my ex friend be worth it, do you think he could love me and would calm down if i said yes or am i just thinking this out of sadness?English
5·10 months agohe broke up before he said all this. he was clearly into me and hitting on me before they broke up though, and the rest still stands. tysm
charlotte/aleks@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•my (18f) sister (13f) is convinced i don’t care about her, how do i convince her i do?English
6·10 months agooh, thanks for that, i edited it :)
charlotte/aleks@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•would dating my ex friend be worth it, do you think he could love me and would calm down if i said yes or am i just thinking this out of sadness?English
4·10 months agothanks so much 🫂 gave me the ick a little that he barely acknowledged that i liked girls. he only cared about if i liked guys or had a bf, he only got upset when i liked a guy.
it’s almost as if he was trying to act like i was straight, which was a bit insulting to me. if i had a gf/liked a girl, he would act like that meant i was just single and not attracted to anyone at all.
charlotte/aleks@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•would dating my ex friend be worth it, do you think he could love me and would calm down if i said yes or am i just thinking this out of sadness?English
5·10 months agothat makes sense, you’re right. i reworded it, i realized how wrong it sounded
charlotte/aleks@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•would dating my ex friend be worth it, do you think he could love me and would calm down if i said yes or am i just thinking this out of sadness?English
8·10 months agothanks so much, i blocked him because he wouldn’t stop harassing me. he told me to ditch my bf for him and didn’t care that i didn’t have feelings for him. in fact, he didn’t care much about my personality or identity so long as i was his girlfriend. that’s all he saw, nothing else outside of that.
and even though he wanted me to “take my time”, he was convinced i was his future wife despite only having known me for about a week all because i was pretty and nice to him.
he also didn’t actually care whether or not i liked him, he just wanted me to say yes regardless. i feel like since that was his first time, he’d have sex with me, force me into doing it if i said no, and then break up and badmouth me.
charlotte/aleks@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•would dating my ex friend be worth it, do you think he could love me and would calm down if i said yes or am i just thinking this out of sadness?English
71·10 months agoi didn’t know all the details, he just said that she showed signs of schizophrenia and acted weird. i didn’t know her and didn’t know their relationship, but i know he did leave her because she had hallucinations, paranoia, thought objects were real (like dolls), and apparently age regressed a lot. he said she got too clingy and “weird” and even “crazy” for his liking. (which ik that word is stigmatizing in that context because in high school, we were told not to call ppl who showed signs of mental illness crazy)
charlotte/aleks@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•what’s the difference of behaviors between a person with npd and just an asshole?English
1·10 months agoohh, thanks!

nope. i have various disorders, including autism, making my “friends” think i was incredibly stupid and had the intelligence of an animal. i was bullied, had rumors spread about me, and all sorts of things happened.