Nice, i only have a steam controller, but I guess it’ll still be better than keyboard haha
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I just bought ratchet and clank rifts apart. Still waiting to play it. But I’m glad others like it!
Did you play with keyboard or controller? And what would u recommend?
I can see you have already gotten a lot of good advice, but I’m still going to share my story
For a man, getting a child is boring as fuck the first half a year. That’s just how it’s. Most mom’s essentially gets a head start on bonding with the kid by being pregnant. And its super normal not feeling anything, it just takes time. Just do your best getting as much skin-to-skin contact, I think it helps with the bonding. And its super important for the child, so win-win. If you do it mostly while they’re sleeping, you can watch tv, look at your phone. And if you have one of those gaming chairs that recline all the way back, you can even play computer if you’re into that.
Then we wanted another kid, and after like half a year my wife got pregnant again, and we’re where super glad. But I think a couple of months before the kid came out, I got postpartum depression. And I fucking hated my own kid, I could not stand her. And wanted nothing to do with her. I half remember not wanting anything to do with the baby, but honestly everything is a haze from that period.
In the end, I think after half a year, my wife gave me a ultimatum, either I seek professional help or we breakup and I leave for good. And that was the kicker for me half realising I needed help. Lucky at the time, I was 24 years old. And therapy is free when you’re under 25, as we had no money.
I think I went to therapy for a couple of months, and luckily I was slowly getting better.
Now it’s about 3 years later, I don’t have an inch of depression anymore, and I love my kids more than anything.
Last month we just got our third kid, a now it’s way easier bonding with her, because I already know what it entails. But it’s still true, it’s boring as fuck, she just lays there, and don’t do much of anything.
But every month something new happens, and it’s gets just a little better.
My other kids are now 3 and 5, and they’re the most fun I have ever had with them. I pretend to be s monster and I chase them around, and they running and screaming for their life, while laughing their ass of! it’s honestly one of the best feeling and I love it.
But I won’t pretend everything is good. We still have to raise them, and it’s still hard work everyday! And a lot of time, it’s not fun getting angry at your kids, because they straight up just don’t listen to you.
All I wanted to say, at first, it just seems like ekstra work and it’s! But over the next couple years, when they start becoming an actual human, and you can start playing with them. That’s when all the work starts paying off. And Luckily time goes fast when you get kids, almost too fast. And now my oldest is starting school next year, and I already feel like I’m not ready for her to grow up that much!
It will definitely get better, it just takes time, and everything you’re feeling, is valid and normal. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise!
And please just ask if you would like to know anything, or want me to elaborate, if I have explained something badly. I wrote everything on mobile, so sry for formatting or spelling mistakes.
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Games@sh.itjust.works•The Witcher 4 Developer CD Projekt Explains Why It Went With Ciri Over Continuing With Geralt as ProtagonistEnglish
26·1 year agoSo true!
I really loved the ending, and it would’ve been sad to see Geralts ending “undone” just because they wanted to make The Witcher 4.
With that said, I do hope he makes an appearance.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•If tomorrow you had 24 fully uninterrupted free hours to do with as you please, how would you spend your time?
1·1 year agoI don’t have 24 free hours, but damn if iam going to try to spend them all on Factorio anyway!
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Linux@lemmy.ml•should I completely jumpship to linux when windows 10 ends support/am ready or dualboot ltsc and linux
5·1 year agoIam using mint, because it seemed like a good “beginner” distro
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Linux@lemmy.ml•should I completely jumpship to linux when windows 10 ends support/am ready or dualboot ltsc and linux
9·1 year agoI jumped ship a month ago. Never really used Linux outside of some small school projects.
And my god have I had lots of issues with stuff that didn’t work or it was missing some packages that I had no idea how to get.
I have a colleague that have used Linux for +10-20 years. So having somebody to ask for help is very valuable!
But all the games I normally play is working so I don’t regret jumping ship.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What is a game or games that you think are an absolute must-buy?
2·1 year agoI haven’t played RCT so not sure how I compares.
But Factorio is first of, a sandbox game. You can build however you want in your own tempo. Not sure what you mean by finicky?
But I don’t think it’s tedious micromanagement at all. it feels super good when you build something new and it works. And there is so many technologies and it’s jus fun exploring how everything works together and coming up with new designs!
There is also enemies, but can be turned off if you just want to focus on building a Factory. I mostly play with them, building up defences and killboxes and making automated train supply that comes with ammo, wall, etc.
It has a demo you can try out. It’s scenarios so you try out different base mechanics in the game. But the actual game is a sandbox game.
Honestly, I think it’s the best solution to also ban the owner.
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Gaming@beehaw.org•Weekly “What are you playing” Thread || Week of July 28th
1·1 year agoOh damn, I remember playing this game sooo many years ago! Unlocking all the different space ships was so fun
I don’t remember when Factorio was in early access. But I can see in my steam purchase history I bought it 1. Sep 2017
I bought Factorio for 20$, and my friend bought it for 25$, And now it costs 35$.
So there have been different prices over the years
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Gaming@beehaw.org•Mod support in Baldur's Gate 3 will be final handover moment to players, says Larian CEOEnglish
5·1 year agoIam pretty sure I have already seen a mod do that. It upped the limit to 8 https://www.nexusmods.com/baldursgate3/mods/327
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Games@sh.itjust.works•Minecraft players outraged as Microsoft deletes accounts that weren't transitionedEnglish
7·1 year agoFor people that didn’t transfer right away, like me, I got so many emails telling me to transfer the account. So people that didn’t transfer right away, stil got plenty of notice
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Games@sh.itjust.works•Minecraft players outraged as Microsoft deletes accounts that weren't transitionedEnglish
155·1 year agoI got so many emails from them telling me to transition the account or I would lose it. So they did give lots of notice.
Even tho it sucks losing access, it’s still a great game worth every penny
Was taking 2 gap years in education. Where I worked a year, and took firefighters education for 9 month, where I met my now wife, after that traveled for 2 month, before I continued my education with computer science.
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Android@lemdro.id•[General question to the Android community] Have you given up on the audio jack, or do you still only buy devices that have it?English
31·2 years agoWhy would he buy a phone with headphones jack, when the selection of phones is so shitty. And he is not even using the jack?
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Games@sh.itjust.works•The wild successes of Helldivers 2 and Baldur's Gate 3 send a clear message: Let devs cookEnglish
3·2 years agoI had the same issues, was even worse for me. I only got to play 1/3 missions, and had to restart Helldivers everytime I got the disconnection error.
But I upgraded my cpu, and now I have not had a single disconnection error since. Not sure if it’s correlated, but it’s nice not crazhing anymore
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Games@sh.itjust.works•Rod Fergusson on the highs and lows of working on Diablo 4, plans for the future of PTR, improving microtransactions — and unicornsEnglish
2·2 years agoBecause not everybody wants to read the whole thing? You still can if you want, the bot is taking nothing away from you

What makes it even funnier is, that steam is started by former Microsoft employees