There will never not be a subset of men who feel entitled to us, our lives, our bodies, our output of work.
I dated a guy (oh so briefly, never moved beyond the interviewing stage) who said on the 2nd? date he did not want a woman who used her energy on other people at work, specifically the human professions like teaching, psychology, or healthcare, because he felt that energy only belongs at home, with the family. I guess he was starting to relax enough to talk about how he really felt. Called Poe “nazifem” music over that meal as well. That whole meal wasn’t a Hello but a Goodbye. A final one.
Yeah, I dread job interviews. They trigger my anxiety something fierce, and if I don’t get the job, I get depressed because I feel rejected. First dates are like that, but even worse! Unfortunately, I need a job in order to pay rent, but there isn’t anything forcing me to date, so I don’t do it.
Multiple, depending. Most ended as 1 date wonders, because of dumb shit like this being uttered on the first interview. Granted, I’ve been out of dating for over 20 years.
There will never not be a subset of men who feel entitled to us, our lives, our bodies, our output of work.
I dated a guy (oh so briefly, never moved beyond the interviewing stage) who said on the 2nd? date he did not want a woman who used her energy on other people at work, specifically the human professions like teaching, psychology, or healthcare, because he felt that energy only belongs at home, with the family. I guess he was starting to relax enough to talk about how he really felt. Called Poe “nazifem” music over that meal as well. That whole meal wasn’t a Hello but a Goodbye. A final one.
The second date? How many interviews do you typically do?
Dating is a series of interviews until you both decide to enter an agreement essentially.
That sucks. I hate interviews.
Most people hate dating, too lol
Yeah, I dread job interviews. They trigger my anxiety something fierce, and if I don’t get the job, I get depressed because I feel rejected. First dates are like that, but even worse! Unfortunately, I need a job in order to pay rent, but there isn’t anything forcing me to date, so I don’t do it.
Multiple, depending. Most ended as 1 date wonders, because of dumb shit like this being uttered on the first interview. Granted, I’ve been out of dating for over 20 years.