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Cake day: June 7th, 2023

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  • I way prefer the wood for what it’s worth. I love weathered wood - it ages beautifully, lasts for years and years, and the environmental impact of cedar (assuming that’s what it is) is far lower than concrete too.

    Concrete is the plastic of things that aren’t plastic. Produced mostly with fossil fuels, huge GHG associated with production, and will sit as a lump of trash forever-ish once the next person decides they prefer a different look.

    Make your own decisions obviously - I’m aware that I’m particularly carbon footprint averse.








  • I tackle this two ways.

    I ensure that I have a progress pride bracelet, pin, or other clearly visible symbol of allieship on me at all times. I also have prominently displayed safe space signage around my office. There should be zero ambiguity of my support - my hope is that this both makes 2SLGBTQIA+ and any other marginalized individuals feel welcome around me, and I also find it reduces inappropriate jokes or comments from the broader organization. People KNOW that I will make a stink if they are assholes. I try to ensure a safe bubble around me.

    The other thing I do is try to make it clear to my team that I care about them as people - they aren’t cogs in a machine.

    Ultimately, it’s up to my team members to decide if talking with me will help or hurt. I just try to make sure that my door is wide open.


  • I wanted kids when I was younger, but wasn’t ready to give up my freedom. Once I was ready for kids the world (and the future in particular) looks so bleak that it doesn’t seem fair to the theoretical kiddo to say ‘hey, here’s a dumpster fire - good luck’. Instead I babysit for my friends and family, spoil the kids around me, and sleep in on the weekend. I also have more time for activism and trying to ensure a brighter future for kiddos.

    No regrets.