• limonfiesta@lemmy.world
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    Plenty of people that commit certain crimes have conditions for re-entering society in whole and I don’t think what I’m suggesting is unreasonable.

    You are suggesting government issued licenses/permission for private people to engage in private relationships.

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        they should be disallowed from participating in a close, intimate relationship

        The legal mechanisms required to enforce that would be some form of government permission and approval structure, such as licensing.

        No amount of rhetorical flourish can get away from what they are essentially presenting, which is requiring government permission for interpersonal relationships.

        How would the government track an individuals approval for personal private relationships?

        How would the government enforce penalties on private citizens who engaged in an unauthorized private relationships?

        And then we get to some fun questions, like what happens if the government privatizes the relationship approval system that OP is proposing?

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          Why couldn’t you just respond like that to me?

          The legal mechanisms required to enforce that would be some form of government permission and approval structure, such as licensing.

          False.


          For example, if one is a sex offender/domestic violence perpetrator in the US, they can be disallowed to have a relationship as part of their probation. Therapy can also be a requirement for probation.

          How would the government track an individuals approval for personal private relationships?

          How would the government enforce penalties on private citizens who engaged in an unauthorized private relationships?

          There are probation officers who handle these cases and violating the terms of probation usually results in a loss of freedom/punishment of the person serving probation.

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            The state has different obligations to protect children than they do adults. Which is why we have things like drinking age laws and legal concepts such as in loco parentis.

            You are completely removing the agency of adults to make their own choices, and instead, inserting the government into those relationships, under the penalty of incarceration and government sanctioned violence, for the crime of having an unauthorized interpersonal consensual relationship between two adults.

            And that’s only taking your proposal at face value and ignoring the plethora of unintended consequences, such as perverse political incentives and privatization.

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              You are completely removing the agency of adults to make their own choices

              Violent, reoffending adults who specifically engage in domestic violence - and I clarified that it should be as part of their incarceration/probation. Such restrictions already exist in certain cases as terms for probation and it doesn’t always revolve around protecting children.

              Probation officers handle this just fine, there is no need for licenses affecting all adults. You twisted what I said, just admit it.

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                Every one of your replies simply adds rhetorical flair to my assertion that you are proposing the government should have regulatory power over the rights of adults to engage in private consensual relationships, which would be handled by the criminal legal system.

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                  Yes, all adults.

                  Unless you’re proposing that these people on your offender lists are only allowed to date other offenders.

                  You are saying that person B is not allowed to date person A, even if both adults consent to enter a relationship, because one of those parties can be sent to jail for the crime of entering into a private consensual adult relationship.

                  Ergo, you have removed the ability of both parties to have a mutually consensual relationship of their choosing.

                  You haven’t even left the confines of Lemmy, and you’re already running headfirst into unintended consequences.

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                    You replied to yourself and meant to reply to this comment:

                    Not once did I suggest all adults and I never suggested licensing. Re-read.

                    Condition. For. Probation. Or. Incarceration. That’s the nuance and it’s not “rhetorical flair”. You misread or you are in bad faith.

                    Such a system already exists in some individual people’s terms for probation and adults don’t need to get a license.


                    Probation is an established system. You suggested licensing I’m not engaging with you anymore because that’s not my argument. It’s your spin.

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                  Not once did I suggest all adults and I never suggested licensing. Re-read.

                  Condition. For. Probation. Or. Incarceration. That’s the nuance and it’s not “rhetorical flair”. You misread or you are in bad faith.

                  Such a system already exists in some individual people’s terms for probation and adults don’t need to get a license.

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      Nope. I’m suggesting that people who offend (especially reoffenders) should go to therapy (locked ward) instead of prison and be taught how to be functioning human beings who don’t hurt others, especially those close to them. The sentence would be similar to their incarceration.

      What I’m suggesting is akin to a prison sentence and probation (which may have terms and conditions).

      You are acting like I’m talking about all people, but I’m limiting this to people who commit violent, domestic crime against others, especially repeatedly.

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        Lundy Bancroft is known for conducting the very thing you seem to be describing. If you haven’t already you should check out his works.

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          Never heard of this person, but given that there are accusations against them that are at the forefront of search results I’m unsure if I feel it prudent to expose myself to their works.